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Friendly Feasting: Mint Chocolate Fudge Tofu Pie

Continuing with my June of Chocolate, today’s dessert is an example of one of my attempts with tofu. If you’re ready to give tofu a try or are a seasoned veteran tofu eater, give this one a whirl when you can splurge a little.

Mint Chocolate Fudge Tofu Pie http://chocolatecoveredkatie.com/2012/03/14/mint-chocolate-fudge-pie/

  • 3 oz pack tofu–MoriNu silk/firm best
  • 1 tsp cocoa powder
  • 1 tsp pure vanilla extract
  • 2 Tbsp almond milk
  • scant 1/8 tsp salt
  • 1/8 to 1/4 tsp pure peppermint extract (start with 1/8 and add more if desired)
  • 8 oz sugar-free chocolate chips
  • 2-3 Tbsp sugar-free syrup

Mint Choc Tofu Pie

Melt chocolate (either on the stove or in the microwave), then throw everything (into a food processor and blend until super-smooth. Pour into a prepared pie crust, if approved, or serve in bowls. Fridge until chilled. This gets firmer and firmer, the longer it sits. (It’s firmer if you use firm tofu and more like mousse pie if you use silken.)

The chocolate chips in this, even being sugar free, add a ton of calories (8 oz bag = 1,050) and other less desirable “extras” so be sure to only use this recipe as a splurge in moderation or take to a pitch-in with other adventurous eaters. Feel free to halve the recipe. A lower-calorie suggestion would be to sub all or some of the chips with Walden Farms Chocolate Syrup. If you’ve not tried WF products, be wary – they can be sickeningly, artificially sweet so I only remotely like a few of the products, and I couldn’t just eat them on their own. I don’t normally promote their use; however, the chocolate syrup might be a great sub in this recipe.

Tofu counts on the plan as protein and/or veggie, so as a veggie, this could be added anywhere. The only concern is the sugar-free chips to use in moderation (small slice/scoop!) but if you use Walden Farms, they add no calories. Feast with mint, feast with tofu, and as always…FEAST ON!!!

~Coach Lauren

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It’s All in Your Head - The Service Standard

One of my favorite things to do this time of the year is a six week stint of making nearly-daily talks to large groups of incoming Freshmen and their parents about how best to access care at the IU student health clinic (AKA, my day job!) I LOVE this because, in healthcare, service embodying time and cost efficiency that also makes people feel cared for and not rushed is pretty much the holy grail.

Turns out that’s a good standard for service EVERYWHERE.

How can we BEST serve you at NGPT?

As part of my talks, I review that the old business axiom of “fast, good and cheap” and how you only get to have two? I contend that in most areas of life, you CAN have all three with a little pre-planning.

Fast means no need to hang out waiting at the weigh-in or fretting about class waitlists if you’ve scheduled ahead. It’s also fast results when we follow the plan.

Good - what works for YOU? Level three may be my favorite and you may think you OUGHT to do it, but if you’re not feeling it, then level 1 may be what’s good for you at that moment. Remember - GOOD for you is what YOU can do at that moment.

And finally, cheap (or, as one parent jokingly corrected me - PRICELESS.) My favorite sign at the studio notes the the most cost-effective way to lose weight is to lose each pound only once. Honestly? I’d way rather you take advantage of the 3-2-1 program (3P, 2 weigh-ins a month, and one class a week) and never do another bootcamp, and keep those 30, 50, 100 pounds off for all time, than to see someone for a little while, get some results, have them disappear and return 6 months later. That violates all three! Similarly, please keep your budget in mind when taking classes - we’re thrilled to have you in as much as you want, but it has to be sustainable for you.

Ultimately, the Meltdown is not a diet. It’s a way to eat and move that we hope becomes a part of your life, rather than a one-shot 8 week deal or something we dabble in and out of as class reunions or weddings roll around. Your health thanks you - yoyo dieting is a nightmare on your metabolism. Your one-size-fits-YOU closet thanks you - who wants a range of sizes staring back at them from an overstuffed rack, all but one of them silently accusing you of where you’ve been, for better or for worse? Your mental state thanks you - let’s shed once and for all the identity of someone who worries about our weight and our relationship with food. Make a decision that this IS the new you and never look back.

Remember that EACH of your coaches and instructors also started out as and remain clients. We’re here not because we’re perfect, but because we messed up all the ways you can mess up and still kept going. Let us help YOU keep on the right path.

All the best,

Marcey

Coach Marcey Tidwell is started as a client with NGPT in January 2011. Joining the team as an accountability coach, she wears many hats in assisting the Meltdown Nation! Nurse Marcey by day, she brings a wealth of knowledge the program!

No Bake Choc Chip PB Balls - CCK

Friendly Feasting: No-Bake Chocolate Peanut Butter Bites

I don’t suppose I’m the ONLY one who suddenly gets hungry or has a craving and just wants to reach into the cabinet or fridge and grab a thought-free snack? One way to combat those tricky moments is to ensure you have healthy choices on hand. Before I get into recipes, try these tips:

  • Best advice: don’t bring junk food into the house, but if you “have to”…
    • Put chips, candy, and other junk food in a hard-to-reach cabinet
    • Put junk in a locked area that you don’t have a key to
    • Buy things that are less tempting to you – Twizzlers aren’t at all a temptation to me like, say, KitKats! (I use this tip every Halloween!)
  • Keep fresh fruit on the counter, in the center of the dining room table, or at the front of the fridge so it’s the first thing you see
  • Have fresh veggies available – peel and cut some after purchase if necessary so they are always ready to eat
  • Instead of a candy jar, set out a jar of unsalted nuts for snacks and guests
  • Keep a water pitcher or filter in the fridge so cold water is always an option. Jazz it up with an infusion of fruit or cucumber slices

In addition to these tips, having some bite-sized items on hand may help. Whip up a quick recipe like the one below. The key is to grab 1-2 bites as needed, not eating the whole batch!

No-Bake Chocolate Chip Peanut Butter Balls http://chocolatecoveredkatie.com/2012/08/27/chocolate-chip-peanut-butter-balls/

  • ½ cup rolled oats
  • ½ cup natural peanut butter
  • Stevia drops to taste or 2 Tbsp+2 tsp sugar-free syrup
  • 2 Tbsp protein powder
  • 1-2 Tbsp sugar-free chocolate chips* – optional, in extreme moderation, not while on a structured plan

Combine all in small bowl and mix (pb will need to melt a little to use). Roll into balls and store in an airtight container. Try subbing the chocolate chips for raisins or a type of seed or try rolling in a mix of unsweetened cocoa powder and a little sweetener. Makes 4 fat servings, each with ½ carb, so L0-1 only; however, a couple of these is a better choice in a moment of weak willpower than potato chips or a candy bar!

Here are some variations:

Chocolate PB Protein Balls http://www.sheknows.com/food-and-recipes/articles/1032363/protein-powder-recipes

  • ¼ cup pb
  • ¼ cup sf syrup
  • 1 tsp vanilla extract
  • 1 cup oats or oat flour (process oats into a flour consistency)
  • 2 scoops chocolate protein powder
  • Pinch salt

In microwave save bowl, warm pb, syrup, and vanilla for 45 sec or until runny. In large bowl, mix oats/flour, protein powder, and salt. Pour warm pb mixture into dry ingredients and mix well. Roll into balls and place on plate lined with wax paper. Chill 1 hr to help them firm up. Store in an airtight container in the fridge. Makes 2 carb/protein servings each with ½ fat.

Peanut Butter Bliss Balls http://chocolatecoveredkatie.com/2015/02/23/peanut-butter-bliss-balls/

  • ½ cup natural pb
  • 2 Tbsp applesauce,+1 Tbsp if needed
  • ¾ tsp vanilla extract
  • 3 Tbsp flour (spelt and oat definitely work)
  • 1/3 cup Splenda (or less Stevia)
  • ¾ tsp baking soda
  • 1/16 tsp salt
  • optional, raisins

Line large plate/tray with parchment paper, and clear space in your freezer. If needed, gently warm the nut butter until stir-able, then measure it into a large bowl. Stir in applesauce and vanilla. In a small bowl, stir together all remaining ingredients; then add them to the wet mixture. Stir until evenly mixed. Form balls with a cookie scoop; then place balls on the parchment-lined plate. (If the dough is too soft, freeze until firm enough to form balls.) Freeze the balls a few hours until they are firm enough to handle without being sticky, then transfer to a bag or container, and store in the freezer. To bake, fridge balls 1+ hr then bake 8 min in pre-heated 350 degree oven. Let cool 5 min before removing from tray. Store in a plastic container to maintain softness. (Makes 4 fat servings, each with ~½ carb, more w raisins)

 

We all know what it’s like to want something “NOW” so make it easier on yourself by being prepared with these guilt-free solutions. Feast on one bite, feast on two bites, and as always…FEAST ON!!!

~Coach Lauren

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It’s All in Your Head - Priority: YOU

Recently I read that there is no such thing as a plural for the word “priority.”

Yeah, technically the word exists, but it’s not really a true thing.

We talk about having our priorities, but the definition of the word is, “something that is more important than other things and that needs to be done or dealt with first.”

If you had to choose one thing that is most important to you, what is that thing?

RARELY is it going to be you. In fact, generally only in a health crisis - often following an extended period of the body firing ignored after ignored warning shot across the bow - do we look carefully at our state of being.

I’ve seen most bootcampers in class and back in action since graduation on Sunday - BRAVO! But as we finish off boot camp, I am hearing the pretty common refrain of how it’s a lot more difficult now that we’re not priority one anymore. Most of us ask our loved ones to give us 8 weeks to make some progress. Week nine might be a little dicey! This is the day when boot camp coaches will usually check in to see how you’re doing. If you have slipped to the bottom of stuff you’re paying attention to, let’s see a little love. :)

I’m not saying that you’re going to leave your sick child to go to class - we all have to do what we have to do - BUT, when she’s tucked in and sleeping, go make yourself a nice Meltdown breakfast. Throw in ten squats when you’re giving the laundry a quick fold. Do some body builders in the living room while the TV is running or if you can close your office door. PACK YOUR LUNCH THE NIGHT BEFORE - while you’re cleaning up from dinner is a perfect time. Mornings are FAR too fraught with potential speed bumps (curse you, non-functioning alarm clock) to leave anything to chance. My non-NGPT email sig line is: “”You will never find time for anything. If you want time you must make it.” When I worked at the hospital, once in a blue moon you would receive the joyous call that census was down, and wouldn’t you like to stay home? That kind of manna rarely drops in our laps, but look for small pockets of ME time and jump on them when they appear.

You are the only person who can make YOU a priority. At least try and hit the top 5!

All the best,

Marcey

Coach Marcey Tidwell is started as a client with NGPT in January 2011. Joining the team as an accountability coach, she wears many hats in assisting the Meltdown Nation! Nurse Marcey by day, she brings a wealth of knowledge the program!

Fudge Daddy Brownies

Friendly Feasting: Fudge Daddy Brownies

Bootcamp finale is approaching! This means many things, including:

  • Final weigh-ins and new pictures!
  • Lots of bootcampers trying to figure out their next steps!
  • Potential for a return to “how you used to eat” - use my blog for support to keep you going!
  • I have more flexibility in what I blog!

During bootcamps I post recipes that fit well for the upcoming week’s food plan. A lot of the recipes I share will fit on any plan or day, maybe with a bit of tweaking. No promises but I’m thinking this may be a chocolate-filled month. Now’s the time I can post things that I wouldn’t necessarily recommend during bootcamps due to extra ingredients or the potential for overeating (even approved desserts should be in moderation!). So current bootcampers, make a note to check this out after Sunday!

 

Fudge Daddy Brownies http://chocolatecoveredkatie.com/2011/06/10/im-obsessed-with-this-dessert/

  • ¼ cup unsweetened cocoa powder
  • ½ cup almond flour
  • ¼ tsp baking powder
  • ¼ tsp salt
  • ½ cup Splenda
  • 3 tbsp soft tofu or firm or lite firm (don’t let this deter you – see below!)
  • 1/3 cup pumpkin***
  • 2 tbsp coconut oil
  • 2 tbsp almond milk
  • 1 tsp pure vanilla extract

Combine dry ingredients (all through Splenda), and mix very well. In a blender, combine wet ingredients and blend until smooth. Pour wet ingredients over dry and stir, then pour into a 4×6 oiled pan for regular brownies or mini muffin tins for brownie bites. Cook for 12-18 min at 325 F. The blogger recommended not eating them for at least an hour after baking as they’ll taste sweeter in time and added this note…Fudgy variation: If you want them extremely fudgey (as in “so gooey you need a fork to eat them”) cook batter for 8-10 min. Then put pan in fridge to cool for 3+ hrs. Makes 3 fats (consider eating it as 6 half fat portions to limit the Splenda and extras).

Tofu – I’ve been experimenting with tofu recipes lately so having a few tbsp on hand wasn’t too hard for me, but I honestly wonder if it’s necessary or could be subbed with water or almond milk. It’s a pretty small amount and I don’t know why it’s in there other than perhaps to add a smidge of protein?

*** This recipe called for applesauce which I subbed with canned pumpkin because while pumpkin is a carbier veggie best eaten at a carb meal, it’s technically a veggie, so my swap makes this L2-4 friendly. However, as someone who’s just starting to tolerate the taste of pumpkin, this was WAY too pumpkin-y for me so I tried it again with applesauce. If you love pumpkin you’ll probably thank me for this swap! If you’re in a program (bootcamp, individual meltdown, Accel program, etc.) and use applesauce, best to have this at L1’s protein/carb/fat meal after a protein/veg main dish and you could add perhaps a half carb more like ¼ cup of fruit or brown rice. For those wondering why on earth this recipe has applesauce or pumpkin in the first place: these items are often swapped in recipes in place of butter or oil to lighten their fat content significantly! This particular recipe has plenty of fat as it is made with almond flour and still has some oil, but these fats are the healthier types and better for the bod!

 

Ok my melting buddies, that’s it for today. Give this recipe a whirl and maybe you’ll find your own spin to put on it! Until next week, feast with pumpkin, feast with applesauce, and as always…FEAST ON!!!

~Coach Lauren

 


 

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It’s All in Your Head - LOOPHOLES (AKA Excuses) :)

I’ve said that if I could buy a pallet of Better Than Before, Mastering the Habits of our Everyday Lives, I would give a copy to every member of the Meltdown Nation. It’s available in multiple formats at the local library, so check it out if you’ve EVER wondered why it’s so challenging to keep going in whatever new habit you’re trying to cultivate, and how to be better.


To avoid being our own worst enemies, it’s important to recognize when we’re trying to slip through loopholes of our own making. While we’ve got DOZENS of ways to rationalize and justify not doing what we know is good for us, this is an excellent breakdown of the top ten loopholes.


Check them all out, but I’m going to pick the top three that seem particular to our specific population for a brief inspection.


The Concern for Others Loophole - this was covered from the other perspective a couple of weeks ago when others may be sabotaging us, but this is when we use others as an excuse to self-sabotage. This was a HUGE challenge this past weekend when many folks were dealing with multiple graduation celebrations and felt like they had to have a token run at the buffet for politeness’ sake. It’s really OK not to have a piece of cake at each of your 5 stops ;). If someone _really_ presses, a reference to your world tour of commencement soirees not helping your waistline will probably be met with empathy rather than an insistence that you have that slice anyway, dagnabit! 😀 If you REALLY need to have something, bring your own veggie tray to share!


The “This Doesn’t Count” Loophole - it’s a special occasion (I reference Jim Gaffigan’s ode to “cake” at the office), or anything eaten in the car is imaginary (this was MY biggest pre-meltdown challenge!) or it’s a holiday (that turns into a holiweek :). Much like we often get the question whether a particular burst of movement ‘counts’ on the fitness tracker (yes if it meets the intervals.) But even if you can’t log it, of course your body knows you exerted yourself - it’s just bonus movement. Same for that unreported (insert your mini cheat here.) :)


Finally, but possibly the most popular, The Tomorrow Loophole. Today was tomorrow yesterday, so let’s cut out the middleman and just start NOW :). (I know - you’re totally re-reading that 5 times!) At 8:21 in the morning even if you had cake for breakfast, you can STILL rock the rest of the day.

Go forth and be prepared to call shenanigans on yourself anytime you hear the small voice of rationalization tempting you! :)

 

All the best as always,

Marcey

Coach Marcey Tidwell is started as a client with NGPT in January 2011. Joining the team as an accountability coach, she wears many hats in assisting the Meltdown Nation! Nurse Marcey by day, she brings a wealth of knowledge the program!

Stuffed Pepper - rice, ground meat, veg

Friendly Feasting: Stuffed Peppers and Zucchini Boats

This week’s blog started with a recipe I just threw together myself. I’d seen stuffed peppers and thought they sounded good so I gave them a whirl. I figured it was pretty simple…brown up meat and sauté veggies together with whatever else you want. Fill peppers and bake until the peppers get soft:

 

Simple Stuffed Peppers (Lauren)

  • 4 bell peppers, seed and halve stem to bottom or just cut tops off
  • 1 lb ground turkey/chicken, brown and drain
  • 1 cup cooked brown rice
  • No-salt-added diced tomatoes, without liquid unless you want a soupier mix
  • Mushrooms, onions, other veggies of choice
  • 1 can diced green chilis
  • 2 tsp cumin, 1 t chili powder

In a skillet, sauté veggies and tomatoes. Add and brown meat. Mix in rice. Add seasonings to taste. Scoop mixture into pepper halves. Place peppers on baking sheet (in mini-loaf pan). If you have leftover meat mix, just put it in the pan around the peppers. It can be eaten on the side, as extra, or used later to top salad or something. Bake at 350-375 for 45-60 min or until peppers are tender. This recipe makes 4 protein/carb servings each with about 4 oz meat and ¼ cup of rice so you could have two peppers on L1-3!

Get creative with your filling. Try quinoa instead of rice. Not a carb meal or on Prime? Just omit the grains; I’ve made this plenty of times with just meat and veggies as stuffing. Want it to have a cheesy flavor? Use 2-4 Tbsp of nutritional yeast flakes in the mixture and/or sprinkled on top. The green chilis and spices I used give this a Mexican flare but if you want to go Italian, use oregano, garlic, basil, etc. Anything cut up small will work in the filling too.

I did have one issue…

…but a coworker had an answer. I was finding a fair amount of liquid in the pan after cooking. She used the tip found with this recipe http://carmenskitchen.blogspot.com/2012/09/stuff-it-low-carb-cheesey-stuffed.html and simmered the peppers in boiling water for 5 min before stuffing and baking. Not only did she not have a lot of excess water in her finished dish, but this recipe only requires 12-15 min of baking because the peppers are already partially cooked. I will definitely use this trick next time!

 

Zucchini Boats

Variation: Stuffed Zucchini Boats

Cut 2 large or 4 medium zucchini (larger ones can get bitter) lengthwise from step to tip. Scoop out the seeds and discard. Scoop away some of the zucchini flesh leaving about ¼” edge, just enough to be stable. In a large pan, similar to the stuffed pepper process, sauté your favorite veggies including the zucchini flesh, and then brown ground turkey/chicken. Stir in 1 cup or more of no-sugar-added spaghetti sauce or even just no-salt-added tomato sauce. Season to taste and add a little Parma! or nutritional yeast flakes. Fill the zucchini halves, place on a baking sheet, and bake as above until zucchini is tender. I wonder if using my coworker’s technique above would be advantageous or not. The simmering may soften the boats too much to where they won’t hold up.

 

Too much work with the boats? Annoyed the bell pepper tips over or is hard to eat without it caving? If you don’t care about presentation, just dice the pepper or zucchini and add it to the mixture to eat more like a casserole!

 

As summer approaches and we’re surrounded by goodies at the farmer’s market and even in our local grocery stores or backyard gardens, make use of these delicious vegetables in new and creative ways – more than just add-ins, they can be the bowls! Feast stuffed, feast fresh, and as always…FEAST ON!!!
~Coach Lauren

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It’s All in Your Head - Habits and Motivation

We are in week 7 of bootcamp, which can be both an exciting and really scary time for those about to graduate (although I prefer commencement :) .) You’re hopefully beginning the next step of your journey rather than picking up where you left off 6 1/2ish week ago.

You have developed new habits and the biggest challenge is how to continue those past day 56. To the timely rescue is Better Than Before: Mastering the Habits of our Everyday Lives by Gretchen Rubin. In one of the most insightful reads I’ve stumbled across in a while, she nails the four motivation personality types that determine how YOU will respond to post-bootcamp life.

According to Ms. Rubin, motivation and developing of habits is based largely on how we respond to expectations - internal (Questioners), external (Obligers), both (Upholders) or neither (Rebels.)

You know how sometimes you do stuff just because you think it’s expected? Then you are not a questioner. Questioners only form habits if they are convinced of their usefulness or benefits of the habit. You are the people who want to know ‘why’ this and ‘why not’ that. And that’s OK - as long as the person imparting the information gives a compelling reason why or why not. Otherwise you’re calling shenanigans.

Obligers will roll through boot camp because they committed to do it, often signing up with a friend or spouse. They may hate or love it, but they will get up for 6ams, dutifully submit usually perfect logs nightly, but absent some intense connection post-bootcamp, are just as likely never to step in the door again. They do things because someone else is expecting them to or counting on them, but aren’t particularly self-motivated.

Upholders (that’s me!) are influenced by both their own expectations of themselves, and by those of others. They believe in rules and processes and can be kinda fuddy duddies, but they thrive on social connections and have a dual support in developing habits, so even if the spousal unit rolls over and doesn’t want to go to class, they will.

Finally, we have rebels. Rebels probably aren’t going to send their food logs or fitness reports. They will frequently be the hardest working person in class because that’s what they CHOOSE, but if a hamburger shows up, legal cheat meal be darned. Rebels _can_ use their contrarian nature to best effect by focusing on those who think they’re going to peter out, (“I’ll show THEM!”)

I’m guessing you can tell right off the bat what your expectation style is, but just in case :).

Obligers and questioners make up by far the largest portion of the population, with upholders and rebels taking their respective places at the opposite tail ends of the bell curve. Upholders will take care of themselves, and rebels will probably just do the opposite of what you encourage them to, so the biggest benefit we can give is focusing our energies on those first two categories of obligers and questioners.

Obligers - consider a 3P group for ongoing accountability OR tag team with a buddy you’ve met for a regular weekly class meetup. A trio is even better so you’ve got a redundant system in place in case your friend is NOT an obliger :D.

Questioners - you of ALL people need to set up your two week post-bootcamp weigh-in checkpoint, like NOW. You need hard numbers to see what works and what doesn’t as you continue your transformation. Get those nagging WHY and WHY NOTS answered to your satisfaction. Then weigh in and see for yourself.

Keep rocking it and plan NOW for your “what’s next” based on your personality and what’s most likely to motivate YOU.

All the best,

Marcey

Coach Marcey Tidwell is started as a client with NGPT in January 2011. Joining the team as an accountability coach, she wears many hats in assisting the Meltdown Nation! Nurse Marcey by day, she brings a wealth of knowledge the program!

Asparagus w Balsamic Tomatoes

Friendly Feasting: Asparagus with Balsamic Tomatoes

I really do enjoy asparagus, even though I was in college before a friend introduced me to them. My go-to preparation is grilling them on my indoor grill because it’s the fastest prep method and requires no oil or anything to make them yummy. Roasting asparagus is great but definitely takes time to heat up the oven and get the veggies roasted to a sweet deliciousness.

One day I was having a friend over and planned to use up a bunch of asparagus I had in the refrigerator. I happened to have a large tub of grape tomatoes on hand and thought I’d give this recipe a whirl. It created quite a pretty dish to serve and took no time at all!

Asparagus with Balsamic Tomatoes http://www.myrecipes.com/recipe/asparagus-with-balsamic-tomato-50400000111098/

  • 1 pound asparagus, trimmed
  • 2 tsp extra-virgin olive oil
  • 1½ cups halved grape tomatoes
  • ½ tsp minced fresh garlic
  • 2 Tbsp balsamic vinegar
  • ¼ tsp salt
  • ½ tsp black pepper

Cook asparagus in boiling water 2 min (until crisp-tender). Drain. Heat oil in a large skillet over medium-high heat. Add tomatoes and garlic; cook 5 min. Stir in vinegar; cook 3 min. Stir in salt. Arrange asparagus on a platter; top with tomatoes. Sprinkle with pepper. Makes 2-4 servings, depending on how much you like asparagus! Add this veggie side to any snack or meal.

For those less experienced with asparagus, you always want to “trim” them. In essence you’re removing the “woody” part at the end of each stalk – about the bottom third. Asparagus will naturally snap in the right place so I generally hold a handful over my trash can, snap off the ends of several at once into the trash, and continue. You can also snap off one end to get an idea of the approximate place, and then line up your asparagus spears and use a knife to cut them all at that length, which will yield more uniformly sized spears.

 

A dish pretty enough for company but easy and fast enough for the family or even just yourself! Feast in a snap, feast after making a snap, and as always…FEAST ON!!!

~Coach Lauren

 

It’s All in Your Head - Support or Sabotage

If you never had someone holding your hand and making you thwack yourself with it repeatedly while telling you (unhelpfully) to stop hitting yourself, you never had a sibling. Ah, memories.

Sometimes when we’re trying to make a change, it can feel like others are not only not helping, but even sabotaging our efforts. It’s important to understand of how deep motivations run. Fear of change is at the base of all other fears. Newness is unknown and therefore anything new is bad and even dangerous as far as our neanderthal brains are concerned (until proven otherwise.) This is the amygdala part of your brain working hard for your survival. Newness in others close to us is also bad because it may affect US somehow. WHY CAN’T STUFF JUST STAY THE SAME???

When we’re determining whether and why another person is trying to sabotage our results, it’s also important to take a look at the (wo)man in the mirror. How much of other people’s baggage are we voluntarily picking up and carrying? While we don’t need to go out of our way to make someone uncomfortable, neither do we need to psychically divine and respond to others’ thoughts about what’s on our plates.

Whether weight issues are primarily nature or nurture, interactions with our family of origin can be the most heavily-landmined terrain to tread.

“Eat! You’re getting too skinny!”

“Don’t you like ____________?”

“I made this special for you.” (Especially when it’s something you haven’t eaten for 30+ years.)

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“Everyone’s having some.”

“It’s a special occasion.” (Your two year old nephew will not notice you not eating cake…)

“How long is this diet going to last?”

I just read the coolest ode to a bootcamper’s spouse for being phenomenally supportive. We should all have these people in our corners like Mickey to our Rocky - helping with the kids while you go to class, being sensitive to restaurant choices when eating out, or even noting that it’s coming up on the three hour mark to eat. That’s pretty amazing. Kudos to ALL the families who cheer from the sidelines, or even jump in and play the game. You are helping your loved one become healthier and more energetic for _you_. Because when it comes right down to it, most of our clients consider family their WHY.

All the best,

Marcey

Coach Marcey Tidwell is started as a client with NGPT in January 2011. Joining the team as an accountability coach, she wears many hats in assisting the Meltdown Nation! Nurse Marcey by day, she brings a wealth of knowledge the program!