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It’s All in Your Head - Support or Sabotage

If you never had someone holding your hand and making you thwack yourself with it repeatedly while telling you (unhelpfully) to stop hitting yourself, you never had a sibling. Ah, memories.

Sometimes when we’re trying to make a change, it can feel like others are not only not helping, but even sabotaging our efforts. It’s important to understand of how deep motivations run. Fear of change is at the base of all other fears. Newness is unknown and therefore anything new is bad and even dangerous as far as our neanderthal brains are concerned (until proven otherwise.) This is the amygdala part of your brain working hard for your survival. Newness in others close to us is also bad because it may affect US somehow. WHY CAN’T STUFF JUST STAY THE SAME???

When we’re determining whether and why another person is trying to sabotage our results, it’s also important to take a look at the (wo)man in the mirror. How much of other people’s baggage are we voluntarily picking up and carrying? While we don’t need to go out of our way to make someone uncomfortable, neither do we need to psychically divine and respond to others’ thoughts about what’s on our plates.

Whether weight issues are primarily nature or nurture, interactions with our family of origin can be the most heavily-landmined terrain to tread.

“Eat! You’re getting too skinny!”

“Don’t you like ____________?”

“I made this special for you.” (Especially when it’s something you haven’t eaten for 30+ years.)

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“Everyone’s having some.”

“It’s a special occasion.” (Your two year old nephew will not notice you not eating cake…)

“How long is this diet going to last?”

I just read the coolest ode to a bootcamper’s spouse for being phenomenally supportive. We should all have these people in our corners like Mickey to our Rocky - helping with the kids while you go to class, being sensitive to restaurant choices when eating out, or even noting that it’s coming up on the three hour mark to eat. That’s pretty amazing. Kudos to ALL the families who cheer from the sidelines, or even jump in and play the game. You are helping your loved one become healthier and more energetic for _you_. Because when it comes right down to it, most of our clients consider family their WHY.

All the best,

Marcey

Coach Marcey Tidwell is started as a client with NGPT in January 2011. Joining the team as an accountability coach, she wears many hats in assisting the Meltdown Nation! Nurse Marcey by day, she brings a wealth of knowledge the program!

Mexi Spag Squash Pie 1

Friendly Feasting: Spaghetti Pizza Pie (and bonus 2nd version)

Today I’m thrilled and excited to present a recipe (plus a spin-off of my own) that Trish initially shared with bootcampers over a year ago. Despite not being terribly creative myself, I’d had the same idea/goal but with poor execution (see my former blog link below). This recipe however was JUST what I wanted and is really quite amazing! HIGHLY recommended!

 

MD Friendly Spaghetti Pizza Pie (http://paleomg.com/almost-5-ingredient-pizza-spaghetti-pie/)

  • 1 large spaghetti squash
  • 1 lb spicy turkey sausage, remove casings (or ground turkey/chicken)
  • ½ diced yellow onion
  • 1 cup no-sugar spaghetti sauce*
  • 1 tsp dried basil (I generally just add a bunch of Italian seasoning)
  • Salt and pepper to taste
  • 2-3 whisked eggs
  • Optional pizza toppings (think diced bell pepper and mushrooms, maybe artichokes or black olives, which will add a little fat)

Preheat oven to 400 degrees. Cut squash lengthwise and place cut side down on baking sheet and bake 20-25 min (or see my blog link below for the faster cook method I always use!). Reduce heat to 350 when the skin gives when you press on it. Remove threads into 8×8” baking dish and set aside (feel free to cut it open and let it cool while doing the next step). Place a large pan over medium heat. Brown sausage or ground turkey/chicken with onion. Saute in any other diced veggies. Add spaghetti sauce and seasonings. I also always add some nutritional yeast flakes to add a cheesy flavor. Add mixture to the 8×8 dish and mix well with squash. Add whisked eggs to dish and mix it all together until you can’t see the eggs anymore. I might sprinkle on a little more nutritional yeast flakes too. Place in the oven and bake 1 hour or until the top has slight crust and doesn’t give if pressed. Rest 5 min before serving. Makes 4 protein/veg servings.

Past blog to see my own attempt at this concept and how to save time when cooking your squash: http://www.wemeltyou.com/friendly-feasting-things-spaghetti-squash/

*As of May 2015, I’ve been researching no-sugar-added spaghetti sauces. It seems Ragu may have quit making theirs, unfortunately. Classico’s tomato and basil is no longer qualified, but they have two current options without added sugar: a roasted garlic and spicy red pepper sauce. The former is at the Bloomington Walmart and the latter is in Bedford but not here locally. I’m hoping this changes. Keep your eyes on labels and don’t assume ingredients don’t change! The sauce will have sugar grams in the nutritional info (naturally in tomatoes) but may not have sugar listed in the ingredients. Companies are sneaky about hooking us on a product, then randomly deciding to add sugar! Hunts makes a less exciting no-sugar-added option in a can.

Mexi Spag Squash Pie

MEXI Version!!!

I love Mexican food and once had cooked up a big crockpot of ground turkey with salsa and Mexican spices when I was in a hurry to have protein ready and on hand. I wasn’t sure how on earth to use it all up and decided to try it in this pizza pie recipe. I think I like it even better!

Follow the same recipe and process as above, but in the skillet cook:

  • 1 lb ground turkey/chicken
  • Diced veggies like above
  • 1 cup salsa and/or no-salt-added tomato sauce (add more as needed for sauciness!)
  • Mexican and other seasonings to taste: cumin, chili powder, cayenne, garlic, etc.

Add this mixture to the squash threads in the 8×8 dish, stir in the whisked eggs just like before, and bake. YUMMY!

 

I hope you enjoy this recipe as much as I do, and a big thanks to our General Manager, Trish, for first sharing it! This is definitely one of my go-to options for a DELICIOUS meal, plus I get to cook once and eat four times. If you come up with another version, let me know! Until next week, feast Italian, feast Mexican, and as always…FEAST ON!!!

~Coach Lauren

joe dirt

It’s All in Your Head - “Maintenance isn’t Sexy”

I was going to start this post with a pic of hubby in his snug Tshirt wielding some implement of tree or bush destruction, but after a year and a half in our house, following nearly two decades of apartment dwelling, the bloom is definitely off the rose of home maintenance. It just ISN’T sexy. But you gotta do it. Trimming, staining, bag worm masscre-ing - it’s all part of the joy of keeping the place you live in nice and worth the investment you have made in it.

When you start the Meltdown, like the Love Boat it’s all exciting and new (you’re welcome to my age cohort for that earworm.) You see dramatic changes in pretty short time periods. People notice! Your life is full of firsts - full push-ups, new pants sizes, shopping in “regular” clothing stores. And as we go along and settle into the “new normal”, there seem to be seasons for certain struggles - we expect that the holidays may be hard, and some folks throw caution to the wind as of Halloween and figure they’ll pick back up in January. But we each begin at a different time and mental place, so where we run into the Meltdown equivalent of the “sophomore slump” can vary dramatically.

This is a great article that draws from the author’s book: Foodaholic: The Seven Stages of Permanent Weight Loss . Consider checking it out to move you further along your path from “diet” thinking to “life change” thinking. Losing weight is easy, even FUN - it’s keeping it off that just kinda stinks sometimes. One of the common themes I hear that people have trouble putting into words is “resentment” at having to be constantly vigilant of creeping pounds.

Each of us is born with a certain amount of genetic baggage that will rule some percentage of our results in various arenas of life. It just is, and no amount of frustration about the person who looks like they eat all day and never gain a pound will change OUR situations. And you are not consigned to a life of plain chicken breasts and raw broccoli - there are many ways to mix up food that is good for you and actually makes you feel good. It’s absolutely a toss-up between time, money and taste. I make no secret of the fact that I prioritize time above all else - but if the enjoyment of food is important to you (and there’s nothing wrong with that) you will have to put a little bit of time into preparing it - which I see busy people doing all the time - or the money into eating out. Ultimately, we have to decide that we want to feel better AND look better, and that the fleeting sensation of something crossing our lips isn’t more important than the overarching quality of our lives.

As we cross the halfway point of bootcamp, I encourage you to resist with all your might the “eight week thinking” trap - start preparing now to make this a lifestyle change you can live with. That means not living for the cheat, and understanding that your body, like your home, requires attention that isn’t always fun, but will keep it from falling apart before its time.

All the best,

Marcey

Coach Marcey Tidwell is started as a client with NGPT in January 2011. Joining the team as an accountability coach, she wears many hats in assisting the Meltdown Nation! Nurse Marcey by day, she brings a wealth of knowledge the program!

Friendly Feasting: Chicken Variations

Happy Friday, NGPTers! This week’s edition of Friendly Feasting is a little different than usual. When it comes to the sustainability of our nutrition plan, clients (or potential clients) generally have concern about one of the following:

  • Boredom with the foods / need more variety, to which I say…READ MY BLOG!
  • No time to cook or make different things, to which I say…here are some ideas!

Instead of a recipe I’m giving you suggestions on how to cook once, and then dress up a basic chicken breast. When you are ready to cook up a boatload of chicken to last you the week, trim off any visible fat then bake, boil, or grill. Cook as many as you think you (and your family) will eat in the next few days. Store the cooked chicken in air-tight containers in the fridge so they are ready to eat when you need them. Store excess servings in the freezer. Now, you have a meal base that you can jazz up to make a little differently each day. Check out these ideas and links to former blogs:

Spicy Peanut Sauce 2Chicken with Mustard Cream SauceBaked or Grilled Mustard Lime ChickenRed Curry Carrot SauceChicken Cacciatore 1Artichoke Tap w chicken

Save time and money buying in bulk:

Buy a couple large packages of chicken breasts when they are on sale. Trim off excess fat; then, baggie them up into various portion sizes. I might make a few baggies with 1 chicken breast each for a single meal for myself, some with 2-3 breasts for cooking for a group or making a larger dish/soup, and a baggie or two with 1-2 diced chicken breasts so they’re already prepped and ready for a stir-fry, soup, or recipe calling for such. This is also the time to throw in lemon or lime juice and spices or other meltdown-friendly marinade into one or more of the baggies that you will be using in the next day or two. What I won’t be using soon, I put in the freezer. Pulling out a single baggie to thaw as needed saves time in thawing the meat and decreases prep time so that dinner is on the table faster!

I hope this blog gives you some peace of mind about cooking, variety, and plan sustainability. Do you have a fabulous way to top or use a basic chicken breast? Let us know on the NGPT Facebook page or current bootcamper Facebook page, or email me! Meanwhile, feast with chicken, feast with variations, and as always…FEAST ON!!!

~Coach Lauren

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It’s All in Your Head - From Good to GREAT

So Michael and I were dancing at a communal Arthur Murray event this weekend (disclaimer: the above are NOT us as no amount of Nair and spray tan for him or peroxide for me will make that happen) , and like all endeavors, some days are better than others, but overall we were feeling pretty good about our efforts. Then the “pro shows” happen. The people who do this for a living show exactly why they are the teachers and we are just hoping to get a tenth of this going on one day:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?t=29&v=3qd-jM3JRO0

So that’s pretty intimidating! And much like a first-timer or returner to the world of fitness, you’ve got a few ways to respond to that.

(1) Completely freak out that there’s no way you’ll ever be able to do that and be bummed that you didn’t start this AGES ago and wonder why you’re here trying to pretend you can be good at something when there are all these people leaving you in the dust.

(2) Come back over into realityland and recognize that there are ALL levels of achievement. Some people came to the game earlier than others. Some people may be more naturally gifted, and some people have just worked really hard for a long time to make it look easy.

(3) Tell yourself that you are you, and you can’t really compare your journey to anyone else’s, but that with enough effort and focus, one day that CAN be you IF that’s where you choose to put your focus.

Or you might want to go through ALL those steps! Just make sure you end on number 3 :).

We had a coaching lesson with the above gentleman, and in the way of all great coaches, he showed us how we were good, but let us realize what was holding us back from being great.

So when you are freaking out that you might get called to the Golden Mat in FBI, or trying desperately not to make eye contact with Bill when he’s heading in your direction with a handful of weights, or wishing for Kerri to walk past so you can pop up out of that squat and hold really quick behind her back, just know that holding that pose and trying that weight EVEN if you put it down, and pushing just a little harder for those 90 seconds will all make YOU better. There will ALWAYS be someone stronger or faster or more flexible, but keep chasing that dream, and know that you’re inspiring someone else without even realizing who that is.

All the best,

Marcey

Coach Marcey Tidwell is started as a client with NGPT in January 2011. Joining the team as an accountability coach, she wears many hats in assisting the Meltdown Nation! Nurse Marcey by day, she brings a wealth of knowledge the program!

Blender Waffles

Friendly Feasting: Blender Waffles

Every time I find a recipe with bananas, I do one of three things:

  1. Ignore the recipe because I hate bananas
  2. Ignore the recipe because we can’t have bananas
  3. Find a banana sub because I think the recipe is worth it

I’ve really started to enjoy the crispiness of waffles over the last few years, so I subbed canned 100% pumpkin puree in this recipe. Unfortunately, Primers can now have bananas, but not oats. Sorry guys – something to try post-bootcamp, perhaps!

 

Blender Waffles http://vegweb.com/recipes/blender-waffles-rolled-oats

  • 1 cup rolled oats
  • 1 cup water
  • ½ Tbsp Splenda
  • ½ tsp vanilla
  • ¼ tsp salt
  • ¼ cup pumpkin puree

Preheat waffle iron according to manufacturer’s directions. Combine all ingredients in blender. Blend until smooth. Pour batter into waffle iron. Cook according to directions. Makes 2 carb servings. Consider adding cocoa, cinnamon, or other extracts/free flavorings in addition to or in place of the pumpkin. Add a couple scrambled O3 eggs and breakfast is served!

 

Tada! A Meltdown-friendly waffle! Perfect for Level 2’s 2-carb meal on Day 1s because you could have this whole recipe to yourself! Feast crispy, feast from an iron, and as always…FEAST ON!!!

~Coach Lauren

mentalclutter

It’s All in Your Head - Mental Clutter = Body Clutter

Those who know me know I am passionate about two things: health and organizing. These two topic come together in surprising ways. It’s best expressed by organization guru Flylady in her book “Body Clutter” and follows her housekeeping mantra that “You can’t organize clutter - you can only get rid of it.” So much for Spanx!

But I just completed an audio book called The Life-Changing Magic of Tidying Up: The Japanese Art of Decluttering. This is as much about the mental clutter between our ears as anything we have hiding in our closets.

STICK WITH ME HERE.

I pulled into the Iron Pit parking lot and had one of those driveway moments where something really profound and/or interesting is emanating from your radio, and you have to stop and hear it to the end.

The author suggested that there are only two reasons we keep things that we don’t love or can’t use.

We are either holding onto the past, or are afraid of the future.

Maybe it’s something someone you once loved gave you, or maybe you’re afraid that a future without this thing might be a less secure place.

People new to the Meltdown are at a critical time in the change process we talked about a couple of weeks ago.

The old things you’re hanging onto might be the habits that don’t promote your health, or an identity as someone who can’t or doesn’t do physically active things, or a mindset that the body you have is the one you are ‘stuck’ with. NONE of these are ‘things’ you _have_ to keep. They may all be things that served you once, but they are no longer necessary and in fact are counterproductive to achieving what you want to do and be NOW.

When you catch yourself hanging onto old thought patterns and ways of self-identifying, stop, acknowledge that that may have been true in the past, but that just like that Color Me Badd poster that once adorned the wall of the room I shared with my sister, it has lived out its useful life and is now a dated relic of old you. (Youtube that one yourselves and don’t blame me when you want to expunge the Earth of every copy of your high school yearbook…) 😀

All the best,

Marcey

Coach Marcey Tidwell is started as a client with NGPT in January 2011. Joining the team as an accountability coach, she wears many hats in assisting the Meltdown Nation! Nurse Marcey by day, she brings a wealth of knowledge the program!

Asparagus guac

Friendly Feasting: A Guacamole Alternative

Looking to try something very different? Have a load of asparagus on hand this spring? I found this recipe for a lower-fat guacamole. That’s right, no avocado…so it probably can’t technically be called a guacamole but perhaps more of a dip. Dunk raw veggies in this uber green mix to help you get in even more veggies to keep you full and keep fat portions at bay.

Avocado-Free Guacamole http://chocolatecoveredkatie.com/2012/03/08/avocado-free-guacamole/

  • 8 oz asparagus (34-36 skinny spears, ends trimmed)
  • 1 cup + 2 Tbsp peas (5oz frozen, thawed)
  • 2 Tbsp veganaise
  • Juice of ½ a lime
  • 1½ tsp minced garlic
  • ½ tsp cumin
  • 1/8 tsp salt
  • 2 Tbsp diced red onion
  • optional: 2 tsp dry cilantro
  • optional: sweetener if desired

Steam asparagus until soft, then combine all (but onion) and blend until smooth. Stir in onion (or omit). Refrigerate until cold. Makes 2 fat servings (due to veganaise).

 

Sometimes we just have to think less traditionally when it comes to some foods, but you never know what great concoction you’ll come up with! Feast with dip, feast with pseudo-guac, and as always…FEAST ON!!!

~Coach Lauren

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It’s all in your head - “Enough is as good as a feast”

“Enough is as good as a feast”

My dearest friend Barbara attributes this saying to her late Mother who was English, and I remember hearing it growing up courtesy that other maven of politesse, Mary Poppins. Simply put, there is no benefit in going overboard (on food, if taken literally, but can be applied to many areas of life.)

Boot campers are nearing their first weigh-in checkpoint, and those doing the “classic” plan are gleefully plotting their cheat days. For the uninitiated, cheat day is the first day after two weeks of following the Meltdown food plan, when newly ‘detoxed’ participants have the opportunity for one day, morning to night, to partake of whatever they want to eat (or drink.) After this weekend, 25 bootcamps-worth of Meltdowners will attest to the notion that there is little comparable to the dietary debauchery of a first cheat day. One long-time friend of the program was famed for his ‘McWenby’s’ combo - three drive-thrus, and a meal fit for a death row inmate’s final feast.

Since Little 500 also happens to fall this weekend, I will put up the most bedraggled Sunday-cheating Meltdowner with a ‘carbover’ Monday morning against the bleariest-eyed participant of Sunday Court. In many ways the effect on your body of suddenly infusing it with mass quantities of sugar and fat is the same as an alcohol hangover. It feels really good, right up until it doesn’t.

Many people find that despite having a culinary wish-list a mile long, they don’t get near the amount of food in after weigh-in that they think they will. As soon as that first meal hits the bloodstream, they hit the couch, sometimes waking up in a panic that perhaps the day has completely passed them by! NO? Phew! Time for one more run - Jiffy Treat, Chocolate Moose or Brusters? QUICK - THE SUN IS SETTING!!!!!!!

That first class the next day will be the real challenge. It’s like your legs are filled with the pureed remnants of jelly donuts. Please, for the love of all that’s good and right and pure in this world, Trish, DON’T DO THE BURPEE SINGLE SET IN T60!

Ooooh - that’s gonna hurt.

Now, I say all this NOT to be a biscuits and bonbon buzzkill. I’m merely throwing out the seed of an idea - I hope it will take root. This is NOT your last meal. You _will_ enjoy your whatever your food drug of choice is again. I’m just asking you to be mindful in your eating, even on cheat day. Especially on cheat day. Stop and enjoy the journey. Ask yourself if the next bite is because you are hungry, or because of something else. Once we are able to ascertain what it is food is doing to us and for us, then we will truly start to gain control over it. Long term, this is not the rote recitation and repetition of a proscribed food plan for eight weeks. It’s the beginning of a journey that I hope will find you healthier in the months and years to come.

Now where’s my carrot cake?

Coach Marcey Tidwell is started as a client with NGPT in January 2011. Joining the team as an accountability coach, she wears many hats in assisting the Meltdown Nation! Nurse Marcey by day, she brings a wealth of knowledge the program!

Paleo Chocolate Coconut Flour Cupcakes 2

Friendly Feasting: Chocolate (and Vanilla) Coconut Flour Cupcakes

Heeeey Boootcaaaampers? Want a cupcake? Here on my blog Friendly Feasting, I try to share recipes that make this plan do-able, sustainable, and delicious. The vast majority of us have a sweet tooth so you’ll see lots of dessert recipes here, though some recipes come out just so-so. So some desserts are just best kept to a treat on a cheat opportunity. However, these came out pretty darn well! They use coconut flour as a base (¼ cup = 1 carb), which can be found at Sam’s Club now for $9.00 / 5 lb bag making it way cheaper than almond flour, which I normally use. Note that coconut flour absorbs a TON of liquid so don’t be surprised especially by the number of eggs in recipes. I’m finding this is the case in all coconut flour recipes I find…just think of it as extra protein!

 

Paleo Chocolate Cupcakes http://elanaspantry.com/paleo-chocolate-cupcakes/

  • ¼ cup coconut flour (~90 cal)
  • ¼ cup cocoa powder (~48 cal)
  • ¼ tsp salt
  • ¼ tsp baking powder
  • 4 large eggs (~280 cal)
  • ¼ cup coconut oil (~468 cal) – I shorted mine by 1 Tbsp to save 117 cal
  • 1/3 cup sugar-free syrup (~120 cal) – I added a little extra and maybe 1 Tbsp Splenda to help sweeten it. Primers – you’ll need to use an equivalent of Stevia

Pulse dry ingredients in a food processor. Pulse in wet ingredients. Line a muffin tin with liners. Scoop ¼ cup of batter in each. Bake 15-18 min at 350. Cool before serving.

Paleo Chocolate Coconut Flour Cupcakes

I made 7 muffins from this recipe. Each muffin has less than: 1 Tbsp flour (carb), 1 Tbsp oil (fat), and 1/3 protein from eggs. On bootcamp, I recommend eating one as a dessert treat after a protein/carb (or better, your Level 1 carb/protein/fat) meal. Not for pick 2 snacks due to the carbs.

I don’t normally add calorie information but wanted to in order to show that our plan isn’t low-calorie as much as it is clean eating, which should encourage you not to overeat even Meltdown-Friendly treats. With 7 muffins, each has about 144 calories.

Next time, I might add a little unsweetened almond milk to add moisture and/or replace some of the oil/syrup. Another idea would be using unsweetened applesauce in place of the oil, a common substitute in healthy baking, in which case the recipe would have 2 full carbs to divide by 7 muffins but no official fat (aside from what’s in eggs). ¼ cup applesauce has about 26 calories – WAY less than the 468 in the oil! This swap makes each muffin closer to 80 calories and appropriate on any nutrition plan level at a carb meal.

Strangely not a fan of chocolate? Check out Elana’s vanilla cupcake version (same directions for when to eat it as the chocolate version):

Paleo Vanilla Cupcakes http://elanaspantry.com/paleo-vanilla-cupcakes/

  • ¼ cup coconut flour
  • 1/8 tsp salt
  • 1/3 tsp baking soda
  • 3 large eggs
  • ¼ cup coconut oil
  • 2 Tbsp sugar-free syrup
  • 1 Tbsp vanilla extract

In food processor, combine dry ingredients. Pulse in wet ingredients. Line cupcake pan with 6 liners and scoop ¼ cup into each. Bake at 350 for 20-24 min. Cool 1 hour. This recipe saves the 48 calories of cocoa powder but likely only makes 6 cupcakes having less batter volume (137-160 cal depending on 7 or 6 muffins).

Keep on the lookout for an additional picture of the vanilla cupcakes. My good 3P buddy Kim L. doesn’t like chocolate (I don’t understand) so I sent her this option and hope to have a picture from her to post here soon!

 

I hope this blog was informative but also gives you a clean-eating dessert option. While it’s nice to have a dessert now and again, we must not forget that the bits of extra cocoa powder, eggs, sugar-free syrup, and especially oil do add up quickly. Don’t fall victim! Remember that desserts are intended to be occasional treats! Be mindful of the choices you make to ensure you stick to the plan. The better your efficiency score on the plan, the better your results will be! Stay tuned for more Meltdown-Friendly recipes while you feast paleo, feast chocolate (or vanilla!), and as always…FEAST ON!!!

~Coach Lauren