I’ve said that if I could buy a pallet of Better Than Before, Mastering the Habits of our Everyday Lives, I would give a copy to every member of the Meltdown Nation. It’s available in multiple formats at the local library, so check it out if you’ve EVER wondered why it’s so challenging to keep going in whatever new habit you’re trying to cultivate, and how to be better.
To avoid being our own worst enemies, it’s important to recognize when we’re trying to slip through loopholes of our own making. While we’ve got DOZENS of ways to rationalize and justify not doing what we know is good for us, this is an excellent breakdown of the top ten loopholes.
Check them all out, but I’m going to pick the top three that seem particular to our specific population for a brief inspection.
The Concern for Others Loophole - this was covered from the other perspective a couple of weeks ago when others may be sabotaging us, but this is when we use others as an excuse to self-sabotage. This was a HUGE challenge this past weekend when many folks were dealing with multiple graduation celebrations and felt like they had to have a token run at the buffet for politeness’ sake. It’s really OK not to have a piece of cake at each of your 5 stops ;). If someone _really_ presses, a reference to your world tour of commencement soirees not helping your waistline will probably be met with empathy rather than an insistence that you have that slice anyway, dagnabit! 😀 If you REALLY need to have something, bring your own veggie tray to share!
The “This Doesn’t Count” Loophole - it’s a special occasion (I reference Jim Gaffigan’s ode to “cake” at the office), or anything eaten in the car is imaginary (this was MY biggest pre-meltdown challenge!) or it’s a holiday (that turns into a holiweek :). Much like we often get the question whether a particular burst of movement ‘counts’ on the fitness tracker (yes if it meets the intervals.) But even if you can’t log it, of course your body knows you exerted yourself - it’s just bonus movement. Same for that unreported (insert your mini cheat here.) 
Finally, but possibly the most popular, The Tomorrow Loophole. Today was tomorrow yesterday, so let’s cut out the middleman and just start NOW :). (I know - you’re totally re-reading that 5 times!) At 8:21 in the morning even if you had cake for breakfast, you can STILL rock the rest of the day.
Go forth and be prepared to call shenanigans on yourself anytime you hear the small voice of rationalization tempting you! 
All the best as always,
Marcey
Coach Marcey Tidwell is started as a client with NGPT in January 2011. Joining the team as an accountability coach, she wears many hats in assisting the Meltdown Nation! Nurse Marcey by day, she brings a wealth of knowledge the program!


