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Top Ten Reasons You Should Try Yoga

Guest yoga instructor Crystal Olry shares her Top Ten Reasons You Should Try Yoga

  1. Sexual Vitality

With regular practice, yoga can help give you flexibility, range of motion, and blood circulation, which can translate into enhanced performance! Yoga also focuses on self-acceptance of body and mind. When we start accepting ourselves right where we are, then others do too! Feeling better inside radiates, and that’s more attractive than any new pair of shoes! Although, I do love a new pair of shoes.

And if your libido is way off, check with your doctor…….chemical imbalances and circulatory problems are sometimes preliminary indicators for other chronic conditions.map

  1. Stress Reduction

Through breath work, yoga teaches us how to calm the mind and the central nervous system while being in the midst of chaos. It’s very common to increase respiration at stressful times, this increased respiration causes an acid state of being, thus heightening receptivity. Maybe that’s great to have when being chased by a bear, but in everyday situations, keep calm and carry on……train the body to train the mind to decrease respiration and find peace.

  1. Improved Recovery Time

Let’s face it, good recovery time is essential, when you’re in the trenches of a good workout plan. After an intensely vigorous tabata class, for example, we can have sore and energy-depleted muscles. Yoga can help move energy (lactic acid for starters) through the body, thus decreasing muscle soreness and improving recovery time.

Oh yeah, nutrition’s pretty important also, have a tall glass of milk after that intense tabata class too…….cow or soy will do!

  1. Mental Focus

REALLY! How’s mental focus going to help me in my workouts? With regular yoga practice the mind will start to generate positive thoughts more often, instead of negative, judgmental, or unnecessary thought. Here’s an example of the mind at work in the middle of yoga class, The Mind:” I wonder if what I wore today looks good? I can’t do this crap, what does she think I am……FLEXIBLE!, Come, on come on, I need to get out of here…..I’ve got more work to do…….I wonder what we’re going to review in the meeting tomorrow at work.” The Trained Yoga Mind: “Wow this feels amazing, Inhale, Exhale, Inhale, Exhale, Inhale, Exhale, Oh a little tightness, ok, breath, slow down the breath, Ok, steady the mind again, relax tension in the face, breath, inhale, exhale, inhale, exhale, breathe.” Chitta-Chatta, be gone, Poof!

Oh, and by the way, removing all that chitta-chatta takes work! One of the hardest and most challenging mental workouts can be yoga…….but when we learn to tame the mind……..the mind will work for us instead of against us.

When we learn to observe our own patterns, we can start to remove obstacles that prohibit us from being our true authentic self and we can then begin to understand unique life potentials.

 

  1. It’s actually a COED practice

Yoga is just for girls! BZZZ, WRONG!!!!!!!! I find it ironic that somewhere along the way……lost in translation and across the seas, that yoga got morphed into a female dominated practice! when REALLY it was mainly a male associated practice in India nearly 5000 years ago. Women, were not invited to practice yoga in the beginnings. A female might have to stand on her head for two days or do something absurd like that before she was deemed worthy to practice yoga with other yogis. It has really been in the past 50 years that women have really embraced yoga in the West. Now, it’s time to take off the blinders, leave the stereotypes behind and realize that yoga is for everyone. The thing is about yoga……..there are so many styles and teachers, that if one particular class doesn’t speak to you, try another one! Here are some example of different class types…….Hatha, Vinyasa, Bikram, Ashtanga, Iyengar, & Restorative……….. We can also compare differing yoga types to different athletic types……..football, soccer, running, strength training, crossfit, tabata. Although we may have our favorites athletic type workouts, as well as our least favorites…….I think we can all agree that after trial and error and just plain exposure, we can have a deeper appreciation for each type of skill and physicality involved in each form or physicality whether sport or yoga.

  1. Injury Prevention

Water or Ice? When thinking about fluidity of muscles, I choose water! Yoga is designed to work the muscles around the joints, making them more stable and movable. I always say in class, “each joint deserves to go through a full range of motion every day!” However, if our muscles are really tight, then our joints don’t know what full range of motion is, thus causing stiffness, imbalances, and unhealthy joints. Yoga will offer the potential for length of muscles, thus allowing for fluidity of movement. Like water in a stream…….ahhhhh.

  1. Balance

Yoga is designed to bring us balance. Whether it’s standing on one leg or juggling all the day-to-day responsibilities, we have to PLAN balance into our lives. For example, most of us cannot stand on one leg for a whole minute…….while others say “my life needs more balance, without actively making a plan to incorporate those balancing elements. Well, let me give you a little tip, you’d better start practicing balance…….DAILY! Hang with me for a day in long term care and you will start to see how important practicing balance can be! Get the picture?buddah

8. Overuse=Abuse

Overuse=Abuse

Yoga is designed to give physical balance to the body, as well as the mind. Strenuous exericse classes cause stress on the body. Repetitive overuse of certain muscles can cause tension and disproportion. When working out, we generally gravitate to work muscles that are already strong……..it’s kind of the ego’s fault really. “Like, Wow, or Like, Grrrrrrrr, my biceps are really strong, so I’m going to go pump some curls and see it I can up the anti today……… And while that’s ok, and sometimes actually encouraging……. And a LITTLE petting of the ego can be good. Don’t let the EGO get the best of you!

 

If you find a particular yoga posture or exercise is pretty darn difficult, it might be because of weak muscles, or other supporting muscles have not yet been trained. Digging into new territory could be exactly what the doctor ordered to avoid overuse and injury!

9. Yoga Buzz

Ever heard of yoga brain? Yoga is designed to rev up your brain enhancing serotonin, dopamine, and other happiness endorphins. I’m not going to say that I don’t love good beer from local Bloomington establishments like BBC and Upland from time to time, but sometimes that buzz fades away too quickly and leaves us in a less than optimal recovery state. The yoga buzz feels like “life is good”, “peace to all mankind”, “I feel alive”, and life starts to make a little more sense. Let me know when you get the yoga buzz. It may take several classes, so be patient. It’s kind of like if you’ve ever experienced runners high, but it’s not going to happen your first run out. So, keep working, be consistent, and have fun!

10. Prevent Chronic Conditions

Yoga, like other forms of exercise is designed to prevent, maintain, and possibly reverse chronic conditions like diabetes, hypertension, and atherosclerosis. Did you know that exercise is like a free shot of insulin for type II diabetics. And by that I DON’T MEAN to alter your medicine on my account………but if your blood sugar is high after dinner……..a 15-20 minute walk with bring your blood glucose down approximately 100-300mg/dL. YES! Keep it in check!

 

So, there are instant benefits of exercise and long term benefits too! With practice, dedication, and consistency, body weight will be more manageable and stress levels will decrease. Then your blood and it’s beautiful circulation will dance around your body like Michael Jackson in Thriller!

Join Crystal for yoga on Wednesday nights from 7:30-8:30 p.m. at NGPT.

Crystal Olry M.S. Registered Dietitiancrystal

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Coach’s Corner: The F Word with Coach Marcey

Disclaimer: This is NOT based on a specific person but rather a ‘composite character’ of a very common situation. Like I said last week - if you’re seeing yourself in this, we need to talk, because we CAN do something about it.

She started out ON FIRE.

She was rocking it - exercising, nailing the food plan like her life depended on it. She had progress to make but had momentum out the wazoo.

Then one day something happened. Not necessarily one day, but slowly, steadily - it was like a car running out of gas. A person who had been confident in her transformation was suddenly questioning it and herself.

WTH?

Headwork is a big part of my coaching style at NGPT. There are some people who are overweight simply because they lack the knowledge of how to eat properly, and modern dietary advice that preaches low fat and high carb has unsurprisingly failed them. No issues, just lack of a plan. Those people can take the plan, rock it and never look back.

What about the other folks? And not just women.

In the next few posts, I’d like to discuss what, in my experience and opinion, happens when people just kind of “fizzle.”

Number one reason is that other ‘F’ word. FEAR.

Weight can act as a disguise. A shell to cover up YOU. Unfair assumptions are made all the time about people of all sizes. She must be anorexic. He must be lazy or undisciplined. People may expect less out of you. You may expect less out of yourself.

Ask yourself - is it possible that I FEAR losing this significant weight? In some ways, it protects you. You can ignore facing other issues in your life - things that are OVERDUE for change because there is this other thing to deal with. As long as _that_ exists, we don’t have to face that we are stagnating in our jobs, or we are wanting to get married and have children, or we’re in a bad relationship but it’s too scary to get out, or (insert your personal bugaboo here.)

If you are losing your steam, cheating more, moving less, and missing your accountability checkpoints, dare to look at what you’re scared of ahead. There’s a reason you’re putting on the brakes. _Only_ once you realize what you’re trying to avoid can you weigh the value of that potentially awesome future against your fear of change.

Coach Marcey Tidwell is started as a client with NGPT in January 2011. Joining the team as an accountability coach, she wears many hats in assisting the Meltdown Nation! Nurse Marcey by day, she brings a wealth of knowledge the program!

To Inferno or Not to Inferno, That is the Question…

This guest blog from NGPT Client Amy Cope was first published in May 2013. Our upcoming Inferno seemed like a great time to pull out this inspirational piece to help you decide, “To Inferno or Not to Inferno?”

To Inferno or Not to Inferno, That is the Question…

To my great surprise right before the last Inferno, my answer to this question became “yes”. My 3P group at the time included Philip Himebaugh, who had just been diagnosed with some frightening medical news but was still determined to compete. Our wonderful 3P group banded together and decided as many of us that were able would also compete with Phil in a show of support and love. This was 6 days before the Inferno. Not a lot of training time for this 46 year old who has already had one full knee replacement and was unable to TRX plank for a full minute. And when I say unable, I mean, “whole body shaking, falling face down on the ground unable to hold it” unable, not just a little wobbly leg syndrome. But we had committed to Phil, so I would attempt to plank to the death if necessary. I was able to hold my plank for a measly 36 seconds on my first day of training. Something really amazing happened that day, though. Several people happened to be around while I was trying and they started chiming in, “you can do it, Amy!” I’ll be honest, a huge factor in not chickening out was that the entire event was to help a beautiful little 4 year old girl with leukemia whose courage knew no bounds. How could I say that I wasn’t even willing to try to plank for 60 stupid seconds when this sweet girl had been so brave and had so many chemo treatments? Over the next several days on Facebook and in person, at least 50 people told me that they knew I had a one minute plank in me—that it was a mental block and not a physical one. Even though I still wasn’t so sure, every day that week I trained at home, at the studio and at the Iron Pit. Planking off the tub, off the couch, off my office chair-I cared about completing nothing else in the competition—I just wanted to complete the plank! Surely that wasn’t too much to ask! The day of the competition quickly came and I felt extremely nervous. I was called fairly early, got myself in those TRX straps and immediately felt like I might lose my protein bar all over the floor. But my 3P posse, Geno Hopkins, Phil Himebaugh and Rebecca Veidlinger surrounded themselves around me. Bill Howard started hollering in my ear and Marcey Tidwell, who was planking next to me, called out encouragement through the whole time. I had the amazing poster that Mindy Metzcar made for me on the floor in front of me reminding me that I could do it; that failing was not an option. I felt like everyone in the room was cheering me on. To my complete amazement and profound relief, I did it! I actually did it! More importantly, I did it with no problem. Every single doubt that I had in myself was unfounded and false. The rest of the day was sort of a blur but was an amazing ride. The competitors with the top 5 rowing scores were to advance to the next round. Anyone want to venture a guess about how many women were in the Advanced Division (over 40)? Yep, FIVE. So I ended up going on to do the push-ups and the kettle bell swings. I wasn’t able to complete the whole round, but I darned well finished all 75 of the push-ups and over 30 kettle bell swings. The surge of power and confidence was electrifying. The whole day was beyond inspirational, culminating in Adam’s amazing deadlifting prowess, all for little Taylor K. I had tears in my eyes the entire time he was lifting as did most of the folks in the room. It was life-changing and many times since then it has made me challenge my own perceived limitations. Try a Hindu push-up? You bet! One-legged body-builders? Heck, yes. Deadlifts of half of my body weight? YES. So my question to you is this. Why wouldn’t you want to try the Inferno? I wonder what doors could swing open for you…

Client Success Story: Sue Reynolds

Each week, we celebrate our “board movers” at the studio, people that have hit a benchmark in their weight loss at the 30 lbs mark or higher. The “board” is a great motivator and demonstration of what is possible, it serves as an inspiration and an accountability tool. This week, Sue Reynolds joins our 90 lbs club and shared her reflection about NGPT for our Culture Book. We thought it was a great time to share her story and celebrate her success. Congrats, Sue!

IMG_7483Two and a half years ago, when I started NGPT, I couldn’t walk a half block or even tie my own shoes. Last summer, I ran five triathlons. I even “podiumed” a few times for the 60-64 age group! Last week, I hiked several miles on the Appalachian Trail and this weekend, I’m running in my first 10K race. What a transformation!

NGPTI’ve never thought of NGPT as a place to lose weight. Rather, NGPT is simply a place to gain health. NGPT provides everything I need: nutrition plan, exercise program, accountability system and most importantly, a culture of high expectations coupled with all the support and caring needed for success. When I’m describing NGPT, I always talk about the relationships I’ve developed there first – the culture of caring and support.

Caring was felt during my first class (Core Cardio). Someone who I had never met before offered to be my partner for the evening and took the time to help me at each station and assured me that the first class is grueling for everyone. I was so appreciative of her kindness. I also appreciated the trainer’s support as she provided alternative exercises for each station without making me feel like a failure. I distinctly remember how proud I felt when she yelled “Good job, Sue!” as I was struggling up Jacob’s Ladder. The trainers know what motivates each client and they strive to customize their support for each individual.

Kindness also came daily from my nutrition coach. She became a trusted “pen pal” that I wrote to every night and encouraged me via emails and text messages. I was pretty good about following the nutrition plan, but one time I ate a third of a LARGE jar of cocoa-dusted almonds (ugh!). Instead of scolding me, Barb praised me for throwing the remaining two thirds down the garbage disposal! I was so grateful that instead of pointing out my failure, she celebrated my success.

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At the heart of this culture is NGPT’s founder / owner. I love hearing Adam say “Niiiiiiice!” when I weigh in. Adam has a clear vision of the kindness that he wants clients to experience at NGPT. He models that kindness and hires people who share his passion for helping people.

The most wonderful aspect of NGPT is that I’ve made friends there that have also become friends outside of NGPT. After doing my first triathlon, I learned there were other women at NGPT like me who were beginning to train to do their first triathlon. We got together, started calling ourselves the Go Girls, and all worked to help each other prepare for a triathlon last summer. Our goal was to finish and every one of us did! One overcame a significant fear of swimming. Another overcame a fear of swimming in open water. One raced the day after getting out of a boot to protect her broken leg! We inspire each other. We talk triathlon. We talk NGPT. We have each other’s backs.

Really, that’s what NGPT is all about – a group of people caring about each other and having each other’s backs.

-Sue Reynolds

Introducing The Cognitive Breakthrough Coaching Session

We are excited to introduce this new option to Next Generation with someone that can offer expertise and understands the culture of our program. Mindy Metzcar has been a client and team member and bring those experiences to her professional background and training to offer a unique program, The Cognitive Breakthrough Coaching Session.

Mindy has a master’s degree in social work and is a Licensed Social Worker. She has worked as a therapist, as a student in training and now as an employee, with the Counseling and Psychological Services office at IU where she has worked with clients seeking help for a range of concerns including depression, anxiety, goal achievement, time management, disordered eating, relationship concerns, and academic difficulties.

Have you ever struggled with motivation to get out of bed for that 6am workout? Tempted to ditch the plan and eat what you want instead? Do you find yourself hitting some mental and/or emotional barriers to your fitness and health goals? It’s common for us to have mental/emotional barriers that can get in the way of our goals. For example, when I am stressed I am far more likely to eat sugary, fatty foods as my way of self-soothing.

Unfortunately this “strategy” backfires every time and I end up feeling worse than when I was stressed and staying on plan. Through my personal, educational, and professional experiences in the field of social work, I have researched food addiction, compulsive overeating, emotional eating, and various other food issues. Perhaps the most important finding of my research and experiences is that ignoring these barriers leads to stagnant progress, and often reverse progress and momentum. One way to address the barriers is to talk with someone about your experiences and the challenges you are facing. It’s common to want to handle such barriers on our own, but as you know from working out in the studio, you work harder when you work with others! The Cognitive Breakthrough Coaching Sessions will give you the opportunity to confidentially explore and address the barriers you encounter, as well as develop healthy prevention strategies for the future. The first session will be spent assessing your needs and concerns and developing a plan for hitting your cognitive breakthrough goals. In subsequent sessions we will work collaboratively to make those breakthroughs!

Sessions are priced at $50/hour for one session, or $40/hour if you purchase 2 or more. If you have questions, contact me at [email protected]. I look forward to breaking those barriers with you!!

Find a Workout Buddy!

Guest blog by Trish Surfus

We have all had one, they day you just didn’t feel like to coming to class to workout. “It’s just one class, right?” Well, staying on schedule and being consistent with your routines are key to success in ANY fitness program. A great way to build momentum is to find a workout buddy. Your training partner for classes or personal training can help you stay motivated and stick to your schedule. Knowing that your partner for Core Cardio Blast is counting on you will help you walk away from that busy dat at work, brave the rain, and stay focused.

A good workout buddy is someone that will not skip the workout with you - make sure you look for someone that will help you stick to your plan and push you to your limits (and you should be doing the same for them). I know this is true for me! When I get to take class with Jon McNabb or Lauren Headley, they push me to my limit just by being next to me! My friend Alex and I schedule a workout together every week, we make that appointment to hold ourselves accountable.

Buddy Board

Some workout partners are “built-in” - your friends and family members. They might be perfect matches and they might not! If you are looking for a partner for class or in our new PT session to form groups, take advantage of our “Buddy Board” in the lobby. This simple board is a great way for you to connect with other members of the Meltdown Nation and help you stay on track - you don’t want to be the person that doesn’t show up for their partner in Combat Cardio - use the system to help you SHOW UP… my grandpa always loved that Woody Allen quote, “80% of success is showing up”. Not a bad idea, set yourself up with a partner to help get yourself in the room!

The buddy board is an easy way to help you meet people for classes and/or personal training.

  • Fill out a slip and stick it on the appropriate day and time.
  • Look for slips that might be good fits for you.
  • Contact the person on the slip (via email or phone) and set something up!
  • If you are no longer interested, please take your slip down.

If you aren’t showing up to classes you scheduled or are just having a hard time “making yourself workout”, don’t waste any more time or energy - get out there, find a partner and get your workout back on track.

A big thanks to Holly Boers for the Buddy Board idea and to Elaine Hubbard and Julie Miller for making it happen!

 

The “S” Word

Guest blog by Trish Surfus

Do you/did you ever find yourself writing this phrase to your accountability group or coach: I’m sorry!

The “S” word. This is something I have been seen and heard a lot lately and have found myself saying it as well in the situation I am talking about. Don’t get me wrong, there is a time and a place for an apology, but sometimes the “s” word becomes an easy way to make an excuse. I really want us to move past this phrase! Why are you apologizing? This phrase sometimes follows a mistake or accident, an intentional cheat, etc. It implies that someone is angry or upset with you and no one is, our coaches are here to help you, not judge you - TEAM NGPT wants to CHEER YOU ON! Any support team shouldn’t be looking for an apology - they should be looking to help you improve your actions and be pro-active in the future about learning from mistakes. It doesn’t matter what “I’m Sorry” follows and this might sound harsh, but I don’t want your apology – ha! Why? There is no need to apologize to your group or coach, the only person you are apologizing to is yourself. So do that and move on - finding a positive and pro-active step in the right direction.

Think about it this way, I was really sorry I was fat, but being sorry did nothing about it – I had to take action. The next time you are thinking of uttering or typing the “S” word, I want you to stop in your tracks, instead of dwelling on the mistake (intentional or not), I want you to make PROGRESS. Don’t tell me you are sorry – tell me your plan on how to avoid the mistake in the future, take an action step in the right direction. Even if you are NOT reporting to me, but in a 3P group or going it alone, I want you to use this philosophy of MAKING PROGRESS and not excuses (the S word!). Here are some examples:

· I missed my fish oil again. I’m going to put a post in note on my protein powder as a reminder.

· I didn’t eat veggies with my healthy fat. I’m going to pre-measure and bag them on Sunday so they are ready for the week.

· I only ate four meals. I am going to plan my schedule a day in advance and look at my calendar for potential problems.

· I didn’t eat in the three hour window b/c of a work meeting. I am going to have a protein bar with me for these emergencies.

· I forgot my peanut butter. I am going to keep a jar in my desk at work and then I don’t have to “remember” to bring it each day.

· I cheated. I am going to tell my friends what my goals are and why they are important to me and ask for their support when we are out to eat or I am at their house.

ACTION oriented steps and a plan are going to do you a lot more good than apologizing to me in your report.

So… don’t be sorry, be pro-active.

A Changed Woman

By special guest blogger: Mary Ann Bough

I can’t believe I am writing about the completion of my first Triathlon. My journey began in January of 2012 at NGPT. At that point, there was no way this would be possible. It wasn’t even a blip on my radar! At that time, I just hoped that I wouldn’t die in the middle of class. A group of women originally from our 3P group (and we adopted a few more along the way), proposed this idea about 10 weeks prior to the race. My initial reaction….heck NO! I had just healed from stress fractures and was concerned with what would happen if I resumed running. I also had a “small issue” with the swimming - I couldn’t even do a lap in the pool without drowning. With some great encouragement from Coach Barb Tapp, I decided to take swimming lessons and make a go of this. Once I signed up….there was no turning back. I spent the next several weeks at the pool taking every lesson possible. I had friends in the triathlon group and outside who worked with me. I am forever grateful to each of them for supporting, encouraging, and teaching me.

Triathletes!  Ruth Dube, Megan Flavin, MaryAnn Bough, Barb Tapp, Sue Reynolds, Barb White, and Jerrilyn Kean

Triathletes!
Ruth Dube, Megan Flavin, MaryAnn Bough, Barb Tapp, Sue Reynolds, Barb White, and Jerrilyn Kean

I came home and posted my race results (1:49:49), shared the news with my friends who couldn’t make it, and looked through pictures. I was basking in the post-race buzz. But only now do I truly realize what the race meant to me. I didn’t do this for anybody else. I did it for me! I conquered my own fears/anxieties, overcame my physical issues, and persuaded myself to accomplish a goal I never imagined I could do. Almost two years ago, a 5K seemed impossible, let alone swimming without the assistance of flotation devices. On August 24, 2013, I finished a triathlon. The knowledge of my own strength and the depth of my determination will stay with me for life.

Ten weeks ago I made a commitment. I didn’t know what it would take, how it would affect me, or how far I’d have to reach inside myself to do it. I didn’t realize how much the commitment to myself would teach me about the life I live, and the life I want to live. Ten weeks ago, I signed up for a triathlon. And today, after crossing the finish line, I am a changed woman.

The Supportive Spouse: Tips for living with a Meltdowner

Submitted by special guest blogger: Jessica Merkel

Special Guest Blogger: Jessica Merkel

Special Guest Blogger: Jessica Merkel

In early February of this year my husband, Clint, decided to join the legions of awesome people signing up for the Meltdown at NGPT. We had been discussing it for a while, but he finally made the commitment one afternoon after meeting with Trish. I thought I had some concept of what it would be like living with him during the 8 weeks of the Meltdown. That is, until I read the Manual for the first time. I remember sitting in my office reviewing the Manual and thinking “Wow, this will be a big change for ALL of us!” And it was a big change, but one that I do not regret. Clint is on his way to losing 50 lbs, I love the classes, and we’re both happier and healthier people because of NGPT. So, for those of you who have partners thinking about doing the Meltdown, or are on the cusp of starting a Meltdown, here are my tips for “Living With a Meltdowner.”

1. Grin and Bear It

No doubt about it, the Meltdown takes a lot of time and it is time that you are not used to allocating in that fashion. Let’s be honest, if your partner was in the habit of working out 6 days a week, you wouldn’t be reading this blog. So, the fact that your partner is not going to be around as much can be hard. Remember this is a discrete moment in time. The Meltdown does not go on forever. Eight weeks is a relatively short time in an adult’s lifespan so grin and bear it.

2. Read the Meltdown Manual and keep a copy handy for reference.

It is important for you to know where your partner is in his or her journey. It can sometimes be confusing as to what they are supposed to when and in what amounts. And then, just when you think you’ve got the hang of it, the plan changes. So, become friends with the Manual and refer to it often.

3. Follow the Meltdown Diet Yourself

Your partner is making a significant commitment with the Meltdown. They are making changes to the way they interact with food and exercise. They are breaking old habits and forming new ones. Whenever a person decides to make a life change, it is significantly harder to make that change if they don’t have a support structure at home. Be your partner’s support, not their downfall. It is like trying to quit smoking or drinking while your partner is still engaging in those habits. More likely than not, the person without a support structure will relapse. It is the same with food and exercise. If you don’t support the Meltdowner, their ultimate success will be harder to achieve. Help them meet their goals. Plus, your own weight loss and improved health will be collateral damage. Self-interest always wins out in my book! Lastly, it is more efficient and cost effective to prepare one meal rather than two.

4. Dump it v. Keep it

The week before your partner starts the Meltdown, the two of you should (with Manual in hand) systematically go through your pantry, freezer and refrigerator. Remove any item that is not Meltdown friendly and will prove too much of a temptation for you both. Dump it or donate it. Do not keep these toxic items in the house! Keep only items that are Meltdown friendly. You’ll be amazed at how bare your shelves will look. Then, make a list and go shopping, again with Manual in Hand. Avoid the middle aisles of the grocery. Stay at the periphery of the store and fill up your empty shelves with appropriate food.

5. Game Plan

Sit down once a week with your partner (and the Manual) and game plan about the meals you are going to prepare for the week, the cheat meal (Pure Bliss) you will consume (motivation), and the work out sessions. The food preparation and planning takes a lot of time. Pack lunches and snacks in the evening for the next day. You won’t be caught off guard if you plan accordingly. Be prepared to go grocery shopping multiple times a week due to the amount of fresh veggies and protein consumed. Planning ahead will make your life much less hectic and it will ensure your partner’s success.

6. Work it!

Go to at least 1 class yourself to experience the culture at NGPT, do the workout and see what all the fuss is about. It will help give you a new perspective on what your partner is going through each day.

The bottom line is this: you love your partner and you want them to be around for a long time. So do what is necessary to help them achieve their goals. You’ll both reap the rewards for a long time to come.

A healthy and happy Daddy with his girls!

A healthy and happy Daddy with his kids!