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It’s All In Your Head: Harnessing the Power of “Future You”

OK - so you know how when someone asks you to do something 3 months down the road it’s NO PROBLEM! I got this! Then a week beforehand you’re having a stroke because you don’t know WHY you agreed to do this and OMG how am I going to get this done???

Future you is an optimist that makes Chris Traeger from Parks and Rec look like Oscar the Grouch. Future you is massively motivated. Future you, when given the choice of a piece of fruit or chocolate for tomorrow’s box lunch order, will always let the better angel of your dietary nature prevail. Then when the pre-ordered lunch rolls around it’s all, “Where’s my cookie??”

Key to your success is knowing yourself. You wouldn’t leave a pot roast to cool on your counter and walk away with your labrador retriever untended in the kitchen. He eats it and it’s hard to be surprised - that’s just human (errr…dog) nature at work. Your toddler will probably not exercise any self control if her supply of Halloween candy is left for her to ingest as she sees fit.

Remember Bill and Ted’s Excellent Adventure? Ted went back in time and laid out helpful objects for himself to find later. You can be your own time traveling hero. You KNOW what you SHOULD do. Make it easier for ‘future you’ to make those decisions.

You’re at the grocery store. Shopping when you’ve just eaten means you will make better choices in the now for your near-term future. Who are we buying those cookies for? Who is going to eat them? Future us, unless that temptation doesn’t readily exist.

Scheduling your classes and weigh-ins NOW for the next two weeks or month means you’re already locked in. Don’t leave it to ‘present you’ to have the intestinal fortitude to pull yourself out of a warm comfy bed without that ten bucks hanging in the balance! (Past, present _and_ future me are all very thrifty - late cancels best involve being carried somewhere on a gurney ;).

One of my favorite things we do is collect video testimonials, often at the end of bootcamps, with people celebrating their wins. Watching these later can remind you of your enthusiasm for movement and clean eating (or at least the RESULTS you get when you are practicing those!) If you don’t have that to refer to, consider using this as a little time capsule for future you:

https://www.futureme.org/

Send an email to yourself a week, a month, six months from now.

Where do YOU want to be in those time frames?

It all starts with today.

Coach Marcey Tidwell is started as a client with NGPT in January 2011. Joining the team as an accountability coach, she wears many hats in assisting the Meltdown Nation! Nurse Marcey by day, she brings a wealth of knowledge the program!

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Coach Marcey Tidwell

 

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It’s All in Your Head: I get by with a (lot) of help from my friends

As we come off Meltdown 24 and there is a rush of placements in 3P (our free online accountability program available to anyone who has completed an 8 week program) I am reminded of a great book I recently re-read: Vital Friends, the eight types being well-summarized here.

The author posits that many of us have a handful or fewer of close friends who largely influence our lives, for good or for ill. Those who influence for the good may inhabit one or more of the following categories:

  1. Builder
  2. Champion
  3. Collaborator
  4. Companion
  5. Connector
  6. Energizer
  7. Mind Opener
  8. Navigator

When I think of the people who most affected me in the beginning of this program, Cardio BIll was certainly my builder. Jen Goins as my food coach was my champion, cheering on each day. Leah Mathews excelled as a collaborator as a fellow first-time Meltdowner - we shared a lot of the same classes and were working toward similar goals. David Fletcher has been a mind-opener.

Who are the people in your life - whether in the studio or your 3P group, or at home, who are there for you in your wellness journey? In the inimitable words of Telly Savalas, “Who loves ya, baby?” Promoting those relationships is like shoring up your defenses against the Huns. Or the Honey Buns.

Who are YOU to other people? Is someone else in need of your guidance? The most common concern I hear from 3P members is what to do when someone is clearly struggling. “You’ve got this” only goes so far day after day. I suggest start with asking questions - it can be as simple as an open-ended, “Can you tell me about that?” You may be surprised what comes out.

Need a Vital Friend? Reach out! The Meltdown Nation stands ready.

Coaches Corner: Food Isn’t Just Food by Coach Marcey

I was 5 years old when we lived in Florida - a pecan tree graced the front yard of our naval base housing, and a pair of squirrels would chase each other up and down the tree, hiding nuts from each other. It was way better entertainment than TV. Mom would go out front and pick some off the ground, and we’d patiently work our way through them, Mom cracking them open with a hammer, and the kids working them out of the shells.

Anyone who thinks food is JUST food was never a child.

Grandma’s fried mush sampled only on rare trips home to PA when we traveled with Dad during his service career. Baloney sandwiches on Wonder bread to keep three growing children quiet in the car during the interminable ride back from the commissary. Arteries forgive me - SCRAPPLE consumed on the weekend while little brains ingested the Creature Double Feature.

Evolutionarily speaking, to survive ya gotta eat, so it stands to reason that taste is probably the most developed sense, but in fact it’s the least in terms of brain wattage devoted to it (vision, hearing, touch and smell _all_ trump it in that order.) So WHY are we obsessed with food?

The hippocampus is the part of the brain primarily tasked with memory, and connecting senses with emotions, AND has receptors for hormones associated with appetite. It also connects the brain and the gut in ways we’re only just beginning to understand, but anyone who has ever had a bout of food poisoning or similar negative association with a taste knows all too well how the mere thought of that item can send the belly into anticipatory revolt.

And despite our rapidly evolving culture, our brains and bodies are pretty slow to catch on that MOST of us don’t need to pack on weight to get us through the long hard winter. We don’t have to worry about times of famine. But skipping breakfast is enough to trigger your body to slow down the metabolism just in case the next meal isn’t forthcoming.

It is ALWAYS my hope that the cerebral brain trumps the reptile brain; that our higher thought processes drown out the deeply-buried childhood associations we may no longer even be cognizant of. Being aware of the efficiency of our body in storing calories for “later” lets us know we’ve got enough to fight against with biology without letting also 35 year old ad jingles sabotage our success now.

Coach Marcey Tidwell is started as a client with NGPT in January 2011. Joining the team as an accountability coach, she wears many hats in assisting the Meltdown Nation! Nurse Marcey by day, she brings a wealth of knowledge the program!

Coach Marcey

Coach Marcey Tidwell